I’ve always found the erotic in things that other people perhaps didn’t see so clearly. There’s such a deep energy and drive available when you subvert the body’s usual reaction to stimulation and push it in ever increasingly perverse ways. I was thinking about it the other day, and realized that there’s a true lack of ruined orgasm erotica out here in the internet, so I thought I’d do something about that. I want to show you what I see when I push you to this sort of extreme behavior. I want you to see how sexy you look for me, when you let me humiliate you like this.
Ruined Orgasm Erotica
The first time I ruined my boyfriend’s orgasm was an accident. I was just playing with his cock, stroking it and making him beg me to let him finish, on the tail end of a pretty long edging and gooning session. I suppose I’d pushed him pretty far, he was such a sweaty and overwhelmed mess, cock twitching untouched and leaving smears of pre-cum on his belly with every flex. All I did was lean in and whisper in his ear that he looked so damn good like this, debauched and ravished, so totally gone for me, and that I was going to be keeping him like this, endlessly on the edge of orgasm for my pleasure. I barely touched the tip of his deep red, aching hard cock, running my fingernail over the slit in the tip while he whined, and then, oopsy. He came. Basically untouched, with no stroking, just spurt after spurt being wrung out of him, running down his cock and balls, while he arched up off the bed and cried out for me.
It was incredibly erotic and hot and I just knew I was going to do that again.
So I Did That Again
I didn’t tell him that I was planning to give him a ruined orgasm on purpose, of course. But I bet he could figure it out from context clues. I mean, I talked about it constantly, about how fucking sexy it was to see him cum for me just from my words, barely touched at all, the extreme of orgasm coupled with the intense humiliation of just not being able to control himself or hold back. I’d found a brand new kink for myself and was determined to play with it as much as I possibly could. So the next time we were going to do a scene together, I had the bed straps out and a nice absorbent towel laid out, and the good lube, too. He gave me a look, and a little shy smile, and got into position eagerly. Just like all our edging sessions and fun with masturbation games before, I started him off with plenty of lube and my hand. I got downright creative, too! If you combine a Fleshlight and a strong wand vibe in the right way you can perpetually edge and stimulate a nice hard cock for hours (or at least it’ll seem like hours!)
My poor boyfriend was once again reduced to a crying, begging, mess of slutty desperate need. His eyes were blown wide, the pupil overtaking the iris; his eyelashes clumped together with his overwhelmed tears. He looked so sexy, pleading with me to let him cum, to do anything I wanted, if only I would just let him finally stop edging. I told him he was such a slut for me, so dirty and filthy, with his cock weeping pre-cum everywhere. I asked him if I should reposition him so he’d cum on his own face, or if he’d promise to eat his own cum for me if I let him finish. He was so humiliated as he promised me anything I wanted, anything at all, just to please, let him cum. I took the wand away, and the Fleshlight, and started to just so gently stroke his cock. As he reached the edge, I told him that I was going to give him a ruined orgasm again, and then edge him through the over-stimulation until he came again for me. I took my hand away, and he showed me exactly how much he loved that idea by coming untouched for me!
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You know what to do to get your very own dirty story about erotic humiliation, cum play, and ruined orgasms. Close your eyes and think about what makes you hot, bothered, and horny. Do you wish I’d used a vibrating butt plug to milk my boyfriend’s prostate? Maybe you’re thinking about the use of nipple clamps and cock rings during a session, and how if you’re desperate enough just removing the cock ring can make you spurt. Maybe you have all sorts of perverted ideas you want to play out in a session. Whether you want a custom story, erotic audio, or to live out your fantasies by phone with me, I am definitely amenable! Let’s talk. Email me: harper@enchantrixempire.com
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Your Ruined Orgasm Mistress, Harper
Whew wee… I could not imagine surviving a good sweaty dick tease like that. But I could pull out my strapon, and imagine the teasing itself. I wonder how long the bois think they would last with Miss Haaarrrper? Hmm? Tell us.
I think they’ll last as long as we want them to last; it’s not like we’re really going to let them cum as fast as they want to… The fun part’s making sure that they just hang on the edge for us, aching and hard, and basically crying for an end to the teasing. Only to be ruined, and left that way…
I never realized that there is a lack of ruined orgasm erotica on the internet. Hmmmmm?
Does that have more to do with mostly men running the porn industry? Probably.
The *money shot* is what (they think) the porn should speed its way towards.
I wonder how much more ruined orgasm erotica we would see IF women controlled the industry, oh wait, I already know that answer… Mistress Harper!
Well! Your story definitely describes YOU and your love of the big tease over the big *O*!
However, I gotta admit, as I was reading it I projected myself there in place of your boyfriend and even though I am a cum eater and prefer to orgasm big I could not help but get excited, literally hard, at the thought of you doing me that way and again and again.
I mean c’mon! You actually made extra effort to prepare for it with a towel, Fleshlight, a wand… and, oh no!, bed straps!… THAT is about you having FULL CONTROL!. There is no reaching down to finish yourself off to the big *O* at the last minute in Harper’s world!
Yeah, I would be nervous when I saw those… but not enough to stop me hopping in place in front of you.
I get an immense amount of joy hearing YOU having so much fun! That is a lot of the pleasure for me, pleasing you. I love women!
This sort of a scenario really is all about me! I think you hit the nail on the head there. It’s not about your orgasm in that moment, because I stole it from you, and subverted it into something much more fun for myself. I think that’s what I really love about ruined orgasm games: it takes your pleasure and makes it MINE.
Very nice, erotically charged article. I’m sitting down at work and I need to cool off for a while so I can get out of my chair. 🙂
Seriously, I love the idea of a ruined orgasm. I can even stand to play like that myself for days. I find it a to end it right away and then lose all the pleasure and excitement. I can play like that for hours and then take a break, like meditation, and then again the next day. I stayed like this for 4-5 days and then I couldn’t hold it back and I finished even though I didn’t want to. It was very accumulated. I felt like I had several orgasms in a row. I like it but I don’t think I can hold it in indefinitely, at least I couldn’t hold it for more than a week. I believe it must be a wonderful experience for both of us. 😉
Thank you Mistress Harper.
I’m glad you were able to play with delayed orgasm for so long! Now, my question for you is: have you considered chastity? Using a device can help with control, and prevent that unwanted eruption coming along too soon!
Mistress Harper, chastity is something I’ve wanted for years. So I’d like to push my limits in this. Recently, I finally told my wife about it and she locked me up for the first time. It was amazing, unfortunately only for 3 days, but I believe it was just the beginning. I’m looking forward to October, it will be a challenge:)
Good for you! Exploring all sorts of fun new things, and to have your wife help you out… I bet there’s tons of fellas feeling really jealous of you right now. 😉
Thank you very much, yes, they’re probably jealous, that’s true. I, in turn, envy them that they can be in contact with you Mistresses, that they can have their Mistress giving them assignments, etc… I believe and hope that my wife and I will get there one day, that she won’t take it as some kind of a quirk of mine, but that I won’t just take it as a kind of a quirk. I just wish she’d find real joy in it. I’m working on it:)
Hopefully one of these days you’ll work out a way to make your countries payment options work with ours! And then we’ll get to talk and interact, even if we can’t be in the same place at the same time. ❤️
In the meanwhile, just keep reassuring your wife that you’re sincere in your desires! That this really is what you want and need out of life. ????
My favorite fantasies that center around ruined orgasm involve a St. Andrew’s Cross and a sleep mask. I can’t do the whole face masks with just breathing holes, they are common in BDSM kink porn but something about them triggers me. However a sleep mask that just covers the eye I can do.
It often involves multiple women and giggling and laughing, with just brief teasing of the cock to make it respond until the ruined orgasm.
Definitely humiliation kink for me.
Getting that horny and desperate is like truth serum. I will admit my darkest sissy fantasies, tell you how much cock I’d worship, and how much more domination I’d take. Being able to follow through after you’re granted release is much easier if it’s ruined.