Sometimes it’s not enough to just ask your Mistress to humiliate you. Sometimes what you really need is to be dominated and made to feel like the weakest, most submissive little slut on the planet, and then to have more specific humiliation and degradation piled on top! If you’ve ever wanted a strong woman to step on you, dominate you, or otherwise control your behavior, you may be into Femdom Humiliation.
Femdom Humiliation
“Femdom” is a portmanteau between Female and Dominant. Two words smashed together to create a new one! Clever, right? Except ‘femdom’ was created because so many people in BDSM assumed that ‘dominant’ must mean a male person. Of course, people also tend to assume that if you’re female presenting, that must mean you’re submissive, too. Why we don’t have ‘malesub’ is a mystery. Anyway, to be a Femdom you need to be a woman and also dominant in the kinky BDSM definition of the word. But to do Femdom Humiliation you just need to be interested in making your submissive partners of any gender squirm!
Two Kinks Are Better Than One
Erotic Humiliation is one of those fun kinky things that can be mixed in with any other kink or fetish to make whatever it is you’re doing a whole lot more fun! Humiliation games really do ramp up the fun and joy, and can bring you super close to orgasm in no time at all. If you’ve never played with humiliation, you should give it a chance. Odds are good you’ve seen examples of erotic humiliation in mainstream porn: any time someone smacks an ass and calls a woman a “dirty slut”, or rubs their sloppy dick on her face, that’s humiliation. Specifically, verbal humiliation and degradation! When a femdom does that to you, it’s Femdom Humiliation!
There Are Many Ways To Experience Femdom Humiliation
If you’d like to try out some humiliation at the feet of your Mistress, boy are you in the right place. Also, that’s one way to experience Femdom Humiliation! For some men, the simple act of kneeling and submitting to a woman is humiliating, because our culture and society is super sane and healthy. Just kidding, there’s toxic masculine behavior issues all through our culture and it results in men getting a boner when they kneel for a woman and offer to do nice things for her. Works out fairly well for me, since I’m a femdom and I get off on that stuff, but in general equal pay and not having to worry about bodily autonomy would be nice too. One of my favorite ways to humiliate men is to have them sit and listen while I lecture them on gender studies. If I’m feeling extra salty, I’ll add in a few notes on Jim Crow and the 13th Amendment to the Constitution. (After all, February is Black History Month, and if you think I’m not gonna use erotic humiliation to teach you some lessons about your place in the world, you’re wrong but it’ll be more fun to explain that to you directly.)
Don’t worry, it’s not all sitting still and paying attention to a lecture on social issues! Humiliation from a femdom can mean jerking yourself off onto the floor and then licking up your own mess while I laugh at you! Maybe you just want to be cock teased and humiliated. Or you could experience the bliss and humiliation of wearing panties all day at work and discovering that you can’t stand at the urinal like that. (ha ha, sit like a girl you sissy!) Or maybe what you find humiliating is being transformed metaphorically into furniture and then ignored. I think you’d make a great nude footstool at a party for me and my friends. We can comment on your body tone and penis size, but you’re not allowed to move, I like keeping my feet propped on your ass like this.
Want To Be Humiliated?
Sky’s the limit in terms of humiliation games we can play. Pick up your phone and give me a call, let me know you need to be educated, instructed, demeaned, and embarrassed, and then tell me exactly how to embarrass you most, even if it’s really weird, silly, and, well. Embarrassing! So what if you’re interested in being shrunken and humiliated? There’s room for all sorts of scenarios here! What makes you go all blushy and squirmy? I want to know!
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Your Humiliation Femdom, Harper
MAMA MIA! Oh do I ever love Ms. Harper’s Femdom humiliation!
And just when I thought it couldn’t get any better Harper turns the heat waaaaay up on me!
Ms. Harper, you already drove me insane, making me needy and desperate all these years but THEN, instead of just leaving the ‘knife’ of humiliation in me you now twist it for that extra thrill you get out of humiliating me! TOTAL DEGRADATION!
Having to cum on the floor and lick up my own mess knowing you had your cell phone out all while you laughed at me was pure bliss!!!
Beneath every great woman is a pussy waiting to be humiliated!
I AM a pussy for Ms. Harper and I think I am getting the better end of it!!!!!!
I love Ms. Harper so what a privilege to serve under her this way!!!!!
You really do love to be degraded, humiliated, mocked, and called out in public, don’t you? Oh, David * *****, if anyone knew what you were doing, how you were begging to lick up your own spunk from the floor, they’d never look at you the same again. The lady in the hallway? You need to beg a little louder, let her hear you next time!
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Yes Mistress Harper! You have no idea how much! What can I say? You are so fucking good, you know me so well, know exactly what to do with me, how can I possibly NOT love it?!
I love begging you! I love being a slave to you! I love being under your control!
MORE please! MORE! Never stop! Never release me!
oh, David, you looked so cute when you were fucking a spaghetti squash for me, and begging to ruin your orgasm and then lick it up… adorable!
Wonderful post by a Dynamic Intelligent and Knowledgeable Dominant! From sensual and teasing to harsh and degradation a Humiliation sluts dream come true! WOO HOO!
Aww, thank you Ms Erika! I know you also love to help guide eager submissives through their humiliation desires and fantasies. 😉
Hi Ms. Harper, you left an amazing post and your pictures are really a turn-on. I’m reasonably attractive and my cock is either the large end of small or the small end of average at 4 inches. I have never participated in any kind of humiliation as I believe all men are equal regardless of our cock sizes, but I see a lot of different perspectives on this in the amazing blogs here. Do you consider all men equal regardless of penis size?
hi Elbert!
On one level, sure, all men are equal, but that’s in the ‘do you get civil rights’ sort of a situation. Sexually? some men are definitely better than others, more fun, more satisfying, and so on. At four inches you’re one standard deviation shorter than ‘average’, so if you want to be a good lover I hope you bring something else to the bedroom. Maybe a skilled tongue and a love for oral sex, or talented fingers… Because on dick size alone you’re below average.
Does that answer your question?
I’m baaaa- aaack!
Geez, 2 ruined orgasm posts of yours is all I can take, for now at least.
I can’t believe how much I love Femdom Humiliation! It just feels so fucking good!
You really do know how to make me feel like the weakest, most submissive slut. You always have. Torment, especially YOURS, is a big part of Femdom Humiliation and you are an expert in it. BUT, you are not an expert merely because of your absolutely beautiful torment.
No, no, no. A true expert always has some unused tools in her… garter?… fishnet stockings?… bra?… leather corset?… I don’t know where you keep them! Anyway, tools, skills whatever they are, the expert, YOU, never uses everything from the start, You hold some for later.
This I KNOW!
You accumulate them, use the ones you have used over and over because, well?, they work!
Then one day you just start piling them on, adding new ones, increasing the degradation tenfold over a relatively short period, completely overwhelming me, DEFINITELY MAKING ME SQUIRM LIKE A WORM ON HOT PAVEMENT after a cool rain! FUCK! I just love my Femdom Harper!!!
“… jerking yourself off onto the floor and then licking up your own mess while I laugh at you!”
Yep, as you said in the originating Participation Prize post here is one of your subtle references to me and as you can see I got it on my previous comment.
But I have to say it again. Cumming on the floor in front of you and licking it up under your Femdom authority was like being in heaven!
And you say the sky is the limit. I KNOW THAT is true! I KNOW you have more tools to use on me Femdom Harper!
I am so glad I am a TOTAL PUSSY for you now! I really can’t wait for the next 2 Ms. session where you show me off, demean me and embarrass me again, in front of a Ms. who does not know me! I LOVE Femdom Harper. I LOVE being thoroughly humiliated, degraded, demeaned and embarrassed by you Ms. Harper, especially to another woman!!!
Oh yes, I did indeed reference you in this post! Watching you lick your mess up off the floor for me was incredibly erotic. And you’re right, I do have a lot of skills in my arsenal, and I choose each one carefully, for maximum impact in the moment. 😉
Dressing me up like a cute innocent schoolgirl and putting on deep red lipstick is very exciting, but because I’m not supposed to want such things you’ll have to make me do it. (I found your 2017 blog about Loser Lipstick!). I play with these things in private, but it would be so humiliating (and arousing!) to bring in a third party and force me to gratify him. I am crying and begging and pleading but am secretly getting more and more excited as things progress, to where putting on that fifteenth layer of lipstick is almost enough to make me climax myself.
It’s the intersection of humiliation and sissification and feminization that works best for you, isn’t it? Knowing that you’ve surrendered all choice and that no matter how much you beg and moan, I’m not going to relent. You’re going to do this for me!
The humiliation is part of the excitement. I found your 2017 blog on Loser Lipstick! I play with these things in private, but having another person (or two!) present would greatly enhance my arousal. Lipstick calls such attention to a girl’s lips, presenting me to someone while I’m made up starkly would be so embarrassing that I would be unable to keep from falling to my knees as you push me forward to gratify him.
That fall to your knees is so hot!
Oh my God, Harper you are so right! I am going to see if I can find that 2017 blog that initially inspired Sherry because when I read their reply, I could literally feel their humiliation in their reply to this blog and OMG it was hot! I’m jealous of Sherry, I want that humiliation for myself!