I miss public humiliation. In My early days as a Femdomme, I had less experience, and less caution. It was all about romping like a kid in a candy store. I tore through all the kinky things on a quest to find out what got Me hot and bothered, and what just left Me bothered. *giggle* This included seeing to it that a (tacitly) willing submissive or two were thoroughly and publicly humiliated.

But as I’ve matured, I’ve realized that as thrilling as those experiences were, both for Myself and the submissive, they don’t resonate with the kink ethics I’ve since developed. After all, one of My enduring mantras is “safe(r), sane(ish), and consensual.

Public humiliation as I practiced it then was usually none of those.

Don’t get Me wrong–all three can be relative to a certain degree. But you’ll have to take My word that back then, they weren’t.

Anyway, as the esteemed Dr. Maya Angelou (Rest in Peace) said, when you know better, you do better. So, I got to thinking: is there a way to indulge both Myself and My submissives who yearn to be humiliated publicly, while keeping consent in mind?

I’ve decided there is! Or, I should say, “are”. I think W/e can find ways to make My solutions adaptable to various kink genres.

But I can’t expound on them all in this post. It would get much too long. For the most part, My submissions to Our group blogs are made to be a fast read.

So with that in mind, let’s keep it to the use of toys!


Humiliated Publicly AND Discretely!


So will it be cock teasing, prostate masturbation, nipple play, or a combination of two or more of these?

By all means, if you have an erogenous zone not covered by those, and there’s a discrete toy for exploiting it, please let Me know!

Want to be humiliated publicly? Goddess Rachel has suggestions for keeping it discrete! 1-800-356-6169

Don’t touch it, just take it! The pleasure, that is!

Nipple play (or nipple torture, for that matter) could involve any number of items. If you’ve already got your nipples pierced, you’re golden. My mind is already overflowing with ideas.

Clothes pins might be a little less undetectable, but still a low enough profile with the right clothes on that only you and I would know. Nipple clamps can’t be seen through the clothes unless you’re wearing a thin tee shirt. If they’re connected by a chain, it’s even easier for Me to have My way with you through the layers I expect you to have on to camouflage O/ur secret!

But you know I have your ass and cock on the brain, so let’s talk about those!


My favorites, of course.


Lovense Toys immediately come to mind if you want to involve ass play and/or tease and denial (or delay–you may have an accident. *giggle*).

That way, all you have to do is try to keep from moaning. Or at least hope the ambient noise of your surroundings drowns it out.

Hmm, come to think of it, you might want to choose a spot with relatively high ambient noise to drown out the buzzing as well!

Oh–I suppose you also might want to guard against wet spots in the front of your pants (panty liners aren’t just for sissies), and prepare to hide any tenting that may result as well. But that’s done easily enough.

Other than that, it’s just a matter of leaving yourself in My capable hands!

That said, you don’t have to have an app-controlled toy to make this work, as long as your will to obey is strong. Any toy that provides hands-free stimulation can be put to good use in that case.

Have one in mind?


Listen in below for your assignment. You’ll be publicly humiliated. I’ll be greatly amused. And W/e’ll both be satisfied by the time I allow you to scurry to horny humiliated privacy!


Goddess Rachel, Community-Minded Humiliatrix


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