I wanted to talk about Mistress limits, because while we do quite often speak of safety and boundaries of submissives, I don’t think there is enough emphasis on Femdom hard limits and respecting your dominant’s boundaries. This crosses over to the vanilla world, in that everyone has boundaries that need to be respected. Failing to respect boundaries leads to stress, misunderstandings, and a lot of hurt feelings. So with that in mind, I am going to go over some of my own hard limits and femdom pet peeves, as a dominant woman.
Femdom Hard Limits
Yes offense, but when I’m talking about something shut the fuck up and listen. Being dismissive and cutting people off, or interrupting is a hard limit for me. I need to know that what I am saying is being heard and processed. I need to know that when you ask me a question you’re going to give me time to properly answer before you ask your next question. Being understood comes directly after that, as a lot of times if a person is only waiting their turn to speak, they are not listening and they damn sure don’t understand.
Tell Me What I Need to Know
It is extremely frustrating, when someone says they have no limits, and then you go into a scene and they stop you every few seconds to tell you “no I don’t want this.. or that” or “I don’t like…” A femdom is dominant because she enjoys being in control, not because she’s fucking psychic. So if you’re claiming to be the go with the flow type, and you continuously interrupt me, I have every right to redirect you to someone who might be better suited for you. In this day and age of the internet and information at your fingertips, there is no reason why you cannot verbalize what it is you want from me and what type of experience you are looking for. If YOU have limits and you fail to tell me what those limits are, or you fail to give information that is required for your safety, I will refuse you service. Plain and simple.
Femdom Assignment
Here’s where you come in and what I expect of you. Your homework, is to get a pen/pencil and a notepad, and write down your top ten kinks. If you don’t have ten, just write as many as come to mind. If you have more than ten, write those down too. Next, write down a list of all your hard limits. If you don’t know what your limits are, research the kinks from your top ten list and figure that out. When you’ve compiled all the pertinent and very necessary information, pick up the phone, dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Mistress Brighton. And then, you are going to share your list with me. Afterward, we’re going to have some fun! Go forth and get that list ready!
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