For some people with overweening egos and unchecked libidinous urges, humiliation and degradation is utterly vital. It works as a sort of check and balance to keep them on a somewhat even keel. But do you know what’s even more effective than a little name calling and mocking? What works to truly check a massive ego, and reminds even the most wanna-be-alpha sort that they are truly on the bottom end of the scale, scraping the bottom of the barrel, and can be replaced with a battery operated vibrator? I’m going to explain to you why ruined orgasm humiliation and cock control is necessary for true humiliation sluts.
What is the role of humiliation and degradation in sex games?
Some folks really do use humiliation and degradation to keep themselves humble. Others engage in these kinks because they’re fun, and get your motor running. There’s something reassuring about being insulted by someone you trust. Just like when a true friend calls you a little bitch during a quick game of pickup basketball when you manage to score on them, having someone tell you you’re a nasty slut while they’re actively fucking you into the mattress reassures you that the social bonds between you and your fuck buddy are intact. Plus, humiliation pushes a lot of the same buttons that arousal does, which just makes everything much more fun in general.
For some deeply submissive people, humiliation and degradation goes beyond just a fun time in the bedroom, and circles all the way around to behavior modification. As hot as it is to be told you’re a slutty cocksucker, for an intensely submissive person, the ego destruction that comes with true humiliation and really degrading acts is the process and end goal. It’s not about getting off so much as it’s about being put in your place, where you belong, and reminded that you’re not nearly as hot shit as you think you are.
So how does ruined orgasm cock control fit into all this?
Beyond name calling is the lovely land of humiliation we like to call degradation world. And in degradation world, there is a niche in which orgasm control and denial/chastity have a home. Sidled up nice and snug in the orgasm control niche is the ruined orgasm station, where humiliation addicts and sluts can find everything they ever wanted. Humiliation, the loss of control over themselves, and the twisty burn of an orgasm that fails to really satisfy and still leaves you horny and aching at the end. Perfection! A ruined orgasm involves the person about to cum taking away the pleasant sensations and just letting the ejaculation continue without the fun stimulation of orgasm. And if you’re in need of some humiliation, nothing is more lowering and demeaning than squirting out a little puddle and still feeling horny and needy and dissatisfied afterward.
For those seeking humiliation cock control, ruined orgasms are a must-have!
There really is nothing more humiliating than having control over your cock taken away from you. Well, other than having control over your own orgasm stripped away, and then used to give you both release and disappointment at the same time. When combined with other forms of humiliation, a ruined orgasm can really bring the entire scenario home to you in a deeply impactful way. There is no denying that you’re not in control, and that you don’t deserve to be in control, when you have a ruined orgasm while your Mistress laughs at you. You’re not in control, and you love feeling so helpless and pathetic, weak and vulnerable, after ruining your own orgasm for your Mistress’ delight.
Now you know why ruined orgasm cock control is necessary.
Whether you’re looking for a way to enhance your submission, make your orgasms part of your humiliation scenario, or just want to know what the fuss is all about, you’re in the right place! Call any of the Ladies and ask for a ruined orgasm, or just go ahead and call me, because I am an expert on the subject. Worried you won’t be able to follow through? I’m sure we can work together to bring you to the proper humiliated mindset to ruin your orgasm for me.
Your ruined orgasm cock control Mistress, Harper
ps: you don’t have to ruin every orgasm for me! R.O.’s allow you to cum repeatedly, so ruin the first one, then we can keep going! Or we can just play a fun humiliation tease game, if you’re a fucking chicken.
very sexy Mistress Harper
Aww, I’m glad you liked it! Did it give you a little thrill? 😉
A ruined orgasm can feel more satisfying than a real orgasm, especially if you are a 3 pumper. Once I discovered the joy of a ruined orgasm, and the absolute acceptance of why I didn’t deserve to do more than dribble helplessly, I found a better state of mind. Plus, still feeling horny and no PNC to ruin your fun.
There’s a reason I love ruined orgasms so much! Anything that prolongs the erotic pleasure that much is absolutely going on my list ‘do that again’.
Oh dear! the first one just had to be a ruined orgasm didn’t it?
Ok, let’s do this, I mean you have already ruined plenty and I now know why.
It was all part of your turning the humiliation and degradation burner up on me!
I still remember the first from you, the joy in your laughter still rings, and stings, in my ears to this day!
It is less about ego check for me as it is surrender. There is nothing quite as satisfying as sexual surrender to a woman.
But you are right, it really is reassuring to be insulted by the one you trust and of course you knew that and upped the ante on me. You’re so mart Ms. Harper! Always a step or two ahead of me! We go back years so that trust was well cultured by you.
Thank you. Your special brand of humiliation and degradation has its roots in your beautiful torment of me, since, day 1! It always kept in my proper place beneath you and our sessions of late with all your ruined orgasms of mine? I KNOW you like to keep me helpless and disappointed at the same time so I have to keep coming back for MORE from you!
I know this because your laughter while you are toying with me is real!
How many ruined orgasms have you given to me so far? I’ve lost count, but I do know that my goal is at least five hundred more…
I think 25 ruined.
500!!!!!?????
Did that make a significant part of you stand up and beg to be ruined yet again?
I certainly do hope so!!!